Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.”
Friendship is a bond of trust, belief of pure relation, such a bond where we can count on someone blindly. It is a priceless relation. A relation in which someone outside from our family becomes more closer to our hearts than our own blood relations. Cherry on the top we started depending on our dearest friend.
The difficult part is that we are not sure what our dearest friend is up to. We neglect our parents’ concern to be careful, don’t stay all the time with your friend, do not share your home problems or things with him/her, don’t depend too much on your friend etc.
We think the whole world is wrong even our parents but my lovely friend is right. Trusting other people is not a bad thing but, “Are you sure that you are gonna trust on the right person?” Hmmmmmm….. let’s have a look on the Types of Friends we meet.
Mean Friends are those types of friends who only stay with us till the time they need to fulfil their needs from us. As soon as they will realize we are no longer needed by them, they will kick us out like they don’t know us.
Jealous Friends are not less dangerous than an enemy. They are those who stay with you just to have an eye on your life. If you are one step ahead of them. They will stick around you like a glue but continue to cut your roots sophisticatedly and you will never get to know unless and until you will not get a big loss or if you are sharp enough to sense their nasty plans about you. So, indeed your eyes and ears should be open at all times.
Negative Friends are the ones who will not be happy with your success. We mostly find them working with us called by the name of colleagues or work place friends. They don’t want to see you around and wants you to shift your job for which sometimes you will find them giving you new ideas. For example, there is a vacancy in xyz company why don’t you try there bla bla…..
Sympathy Seeker Friend sometimes we meet our old childhood friend. Who lives 10 states away from us but gets a shock to hear you married and happily living your married life. So, here is when their work gets started. They will be in touch with you no matter what but will encourage you to tell them your real domestic problems and especially with your wife. If you don’t have any mess in your life and is satisfied with your better half then they try their best to web a trap around you to gain your attention. If you are a sympathetic person then my friend you are getting in to a serious trouble. So, always be careful to whom you give permission to enter in your life.
Remember, once Judas Iscariot was also a Jesus’ Friend.
A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed From the above discussion please don’t take the image of friends wrong or of mistrust always, because all the friends are not like the above mentioned.
Over here, by the title ‘A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed’ tells us that there are some people who are worthy enough to be called as ‘Friends.’ The reason is because they have all the following attributes of the relationship called friendship,
They will be loyal
They will be faithful
They will always give you an honest opinion
They will be happy to see you happy
They will be the ones who knock at your door asap in your bad times but with positivity
They will be your partner in crime
They will never leave you alone no matter what
They will be just a call away from you
They will be God fearing and because of this trait they stand out among others.
So, keep enjoying with your friends but stay very much alert to whom you give this virtue to be called a friend.
SLK Writings 